What talk to a girl? This topic surely concerns many guys. You can’t talk about the weather all the time, right? Should it be movies, music, hobbies, school, relationships? How to start a conversation and keep it going, to remain interesting and make the right impression?
What To Say When You Introduce Yourself?
It is one of the difficult parts about meeting new girls. How to approach her and what to say to start the conversation and to make sure she does not refuse you immediately.
We must act on the situation: “Do you often walk in the park? I also really like here. I can show you my favorite shop if you like? By the way, I’m Xxxx, and you?”
Or: “Can you tell me if there is a nice gift shop nearby? I need to choose a gift for my mom’s anniversary. Could you help me with that?”
If she preens herself, compliment her and smile. The conversation will start naturally.
In a store: “Could you tell me what belt would suit these jeans? You are very stylish. Could you help me to choose the right one?”
One can make up an adequate phrase for any situation. You can practice this skill when you walk. If you see a pretty girl, think of something you could say to start a conversation.
The Conversation With The Girl – How To Behave?
How you talk is often more important than what you talk about. Do not be too shy, but do not be vulgar either. What should you do if there is an awkward pause?
There are several key points that you should pay attention to:
- be natural. Do not act like alpha male or a snob that looks down at everyone. Do not act too smart, just be yourself;
- stay positive: no one wants to date a boring guy who is tired of life in his 18;
- jokes are nice, but if you are not good in joking, better skip them;
- girls are emotional, so add some life and color to your stories;
- remember or make up a couple of interesting real life stories;
- think of some conversation topics that you find interesting: hobbies, travels, gadgets, music:
- try to talk more about each other to establish a relationship, girls like talking about themselves;
- know how to listen and do not interrupt her, keep the conversation going if you see that she likes the topic.
What To Talk About?
If you just think about it for a while and use your imagination, you will realize that there is a lot of things you can discuss with a girl. Well of course, you should consider her age and her interests.
Study and work. You should be wondering what she does, where she studies or works. Does she like what she does , does she like her coworkers, does she have any future plans. Think about some funny stories from your life, and she will think of some stories, too. The conversation will not be boring.
Recreation and entertainment. How does she spend her free time? Where does she go? Tell her about your favorite places and invite her somewhere to spend the coming weekend together.
Hobbies make an excellent conversation, too. If she is interested in something, she will be happy to tell you how she made a nice rubber band bracelet , how she won college swimming competition, or what quest she is planning to play next weekend.
It’s o’k to show off a little if you have some hobbies that you are successful at.
You can also talk about Movies and Music. “Have you watched that movie?.. No? They say it’s really nice, let;s watch it together”.
Invite her to a Concert of your favorite band. You will have a lot to talk about after it.
Travels. Ask the girl If she likes traveling, what places she has already been to and where she would like to go.
Tell her about your last trip. Ask her what kind of travels she prefers (beaches, exotic counties, or adventure travel like hiking and rafting).
Cars. Not all girls like to talk about cars, try some probing questions first.
If she is ready to discuss, ask her if she drives or if she is planning to learn; what cars she likes.
Tell her about your dream car.
Pets. Talking about pets is a win-win. If she is hates animals, it’s a dangerous sign. But that’s very rare, as most of the girls love pets even if they don’t own any.
You can visit a zoo or an aquarium together, the conversation will unfold naturally.
If she has a pet, she will be happy to tell you about it. And you can tell her about yours, or maybe something interesting you know about animals.
Relationships. This is an endless topic: what she likes in guys, who would make her happy, things she can’t stand (rudeness, greed, insecurity etc.)
Share your relationship values, tell about the celebrity couples that you thinks are good examples.
Holidays and Gifts. Everyone likes celebrations. What are her favorite ones? Tell her about your preferences, remember about nice New Year celebrations, ask her how she celebrates. What are the gifts that impressed her, is there anything special that she would like to get for her birthday.
Food. This is an easy topic and there is a lot to discuss: food preferences, funny childhood stories (think grandma’s pancakes), family traditions.
This is also a good way to invite her to cafe’ or a picnic.
Things You Should Not Discuss With A Girl
Do not discuss your past relationships, neither yours, nor hers. If the relationship ended, then something did not work out and she would not be happy to discuss it.
If you talk bad about your ex-girlfriends, it will scare off any smart girl.
If you talk about your victories, she will doubt your reliability, why would she need a cheater?
When the relationship is just starting, do not talk about sex, religion, health and money. Do not tell everything at once at keep it romantic.
If you are attracted to each other, you will enjoy learning new things about each other’s life. There will be new stories, you will learn each other’s preferences, cute habits and see the reactions.
Once a guy and a girl are close, it will be easy to talk about anything. The most important is to find each other. So meet new girls, communicate and search for your other half.
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