What do girls want? Money is the first thing that most of us think first. But this is not true. Let us reveal the mystery and tell you how to conquer a girl’s heart without having a million dollar bank account or epic biceps.
What do Girls want from Men?
If you think that all girls are consumerists that dream of finding a “sugar daddy” and sell their beauty, you got it all wrong. The desires of the majority go beyond the stereotypes. Read on and see for yourself!
She does not dream of a muscular man or a wallet full of money. All that she wants is a self-confident man who will protect and support her.
Yes, she still wants him to be attractive as her friend’s support is important for her self-esteem. Most of the guys make a mistake thinking that being handsome equals having big biceps and triceps.
Here is the secret. When girls look at those paragons of manhood in the magazines, it is not the lean and muscular body that they pay attention to. They evaluate the look of his eyes and how self-confident he is.
Girls intuitively understand: a physically strong man may turn out to be a weakling when a trouble comes. A woman cannot afford that, as her maternal instinct and her genetic memory tell her to find a strong and reliable male who will protect her and the offspring
Let us specify what ladies find attractive.
- Self confidence, strength of mind, readiness to stand up for her.
- Tidiness is something that should not be underestimated when it comes to girls’ preferences. You can be 100% sure that bad breath, body odor, dirty nails and hair will scare girls off.
- Sociability. You don’t have to be the life and soul of the party. But you should be able to keep the conversation going, to tell a joke when it’s appropriate and know a little about everything. That’s a minimum that any girl expects.
The second thing girls want is to be conquered
Not only it flatters her and raises her self-esteem, but it also proves that she is the only one he needs. In addition, persistence in achieving goals is perceived as a sign of a strong character and makes the guy more attractive.
Remember the days when knights participated in tournaments to win the favor of the fair lady? Do you think there are no more fair ladies left? You are wrong. Modern girls still want to be battled for, it’s just that the ways are different these days. But let us talk about this later.
Girls like all things romantic
They need attention and tenderness and they are always happy to receive compliments, surprise presents and anything that shows the man’s romantic feelings.
She will be touched to receive a teddy bear or a box of chocolate for your one month anniversary. She will be delighted with your gentle manners, if you help her step into public transport, see her off after her evening classes, if you hold out a hand to help her go down the stairs.
But guys are not all that a modern Juliet cares about. If you understand what girls want in life, you will be able to understand the motives of her actions and finally find the way to her heart.
What a Girl Wants in Life?
She is no longer a careless little girl, but not yet a mature woman who only cares about her career and family. Therefore, her wishes reflect both childhood dreams and grown up interests.
- Spending time with her girlfriends. Hours of chatting on the phone, going out to cafes, concerts and parties – you will have to face it all when you date a girl. There’s nothing you can do about it, just accept it.
- Entertainment and thrills. She does not yet have that self-preservation instinct that keeps women away from extreme fun. She will look for adventures like climbing or whitewater rafting. Offering her a similar experience is a good way to bait an adventurous girl.
- Shopping. She gets a double pleasure from it. Firstly, she enjoys the process of choice, fitting and buying. Secondly, as a result she gets a new dress or a pair of jeans that add up to her collection and help her to attract men. She will be amazed with a guy who is patient enough to tolerate this shopping run and genuinely comment on her choices.
- Good Shape. Subconsciously every girl wants to be attractive to the opposite sex. Hence the desire to look good: dress up and have a slender figure. She would use anything: diets, fitness and cellulite treatments.
- It will hurt her a lot if you point out her imperfections, so you either accept her the way she is, or act more gently: invite her to join a fitness club together or start eating healthier.
- She had dolls when she was small, now it could be a kitten or a puppy. This is how her maternal instinct works. There’s not much you can do about it. You either try to share her interest, or find another girl who’s not so obsessed with kitties, puppies and guinea pigs,.
How to Make a Girl Like You?
Let us sum up everything, as we have already given all the tips to conquer a girl’s heart:
- be self-confident, this is the main thing that makes you attractive in her eyes;
- do not forget about hygiene and be tidy. Your clothes may not be expensive, but they have to be neat;
- more romance: a “Happy Birthday, Darling” note on the pavement under her window, a love confession video that you filmed yourself, a surprise flash mob with your friends will work without failure;
- surround her with care and attention, remember all the important dates and celebrate them together;
- pamper her and grant her wishes, and she will surely appreciate your effort. But remember that girls want to be liked, too. Be sure not to run into a hunter of men’s hearts.